tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4792944119922574436.post270012172434850834..comments2011-11-12T21:32:43.758-08:00Comments on Becca: Sick and TiredBeccahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06539865726899032058noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4792944119922574436.post-49204154833334970002009-11-19T13:15:08.943-08:002009-11-19T13:15:08.943-08:00Becca you are a wonderful person. I'm so sorry...Becca you are a wonderful person. I'm so sorry you and your family are going through all this. Keep your head up. Things will all be okay. :)M3MUhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12131298386196819957noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4792944119922574436.post-59404947877456722122009-11-17T22:56:01.534-08:002009-11-17T22:56:01.534-08:00I always thought if we just loved him enough he wo...I always thought if we just loved him enough he would change. I have come to accept that it isn't the way things happen. We have to accept things we can't control or change. The only way to feel peace in our situation with Ben is from Heavenly Father. We will always wonder if he is going to end up dead or in prison. I will always hope for a miracle.Angelahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07124825405962687637noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4792944119922574436.post-58772785648705624942009-11-15T17:13:15.175-08:002009-11-15T17:13:15.175-08:00I am sorry that is something that you have to go t...I am sorry that is something that you have to go through. It is absolutely not your fault! If only he could realize how much grief and pain he is putting you and your family through. I will pray for him and you guys. I wish there was something I could do to help.Chelsahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07165700213925945123noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4792944119922574436.post-67276010134543808202009-11-14T17:32:32.578-08:002009-11-14T17:32:32.578-08:00You are in no way responsible for his mistakes.
...You are in no way responsible for his mistakes. <br />Don't lay awake worrying. It doesn't help, it just makes you miserable. Someone once told me that when you are anxious about something you don't have control over, lose yourself in service. Do something every day for someone. It is not enough to tell yourself not to worry. You have to replace those thoughts with something else. Start planning something to be excited about. <br />We all watch the news and wonder when there's a crash or a bank robbery, if it is him. To me, he is already dead in a sense. Maybe someday the real Ben will come back alive.Christine Rowleyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09145467940962729779noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4792944119922574436.post-47450653790284626952009-11-14T14:58:45.245-08:002009-11-14T14:58:45.245-08:00You need to come up with some distractions so that...You need to come up with some distractions so that when you worry, you can think of something else. Don't let his addiction drag you down too. You are a great person and that you worry so much about him shows that.Lesliehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14436748214980063895noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4792944119922574436.post-66001062261502186612009-11-14T10:10:02.033-08:002009-11-14T10:10:02.033-08:00Becca, I'm sorry that he is the way that he is...Becca, I'm sorry that he is the way that he is. Weather he goes to prison or ends up dead, I know that he will be in a better place and that offers me some hope. I am sorry that you are right there in the chaos, so you aren't able to escape those feelings. You are a wonderful and beautiful person. Don't ever blame yourself for the way that he is. Forgive yourself for past mistakes. That's all that they are.The Hoggan'shttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06007282982549869907noreply@blogger.com